What to expect from Lisa Marie Presleyâs memoir? Some sanitised, cagey reminiscences, dutifully studded with anecdotes about her father, Elvis, the king of rockânâroll, who died aged 42 in 1977? Instead, itâs a warts and all jaw-dropper. The marriages (including Michael Jackson and Nicolas Cage). The drugs (Lisa Marie spiralled into opioid addiction after a caesarean section to deliver her twins). And thatâs before the revelations about her son Ben Keoughâs 2020 suicide (she kept his body on dry ice in her California home for two months). When her actor daughter, Riley Keough (from Daisy Jones & the Six), writes that she wants Lisa Marie to emerge from the pages of the memoir as a âthree-dimensional characterâ, sheâs not kidding.
The book is co-authored by Keough from in-depth taped interviews with her mother just before her death aged 54 in 2023 (from cardiac arrest and a small bowel obstruction caused by complications from bariatric surgery). Keoughâs own words appear throughout (in a different typeface), especially frequently towards the end.
First, though, weâre transported to Presleyâs childhood as the overindulged princess of the Memphis, Tennessee mansion Graceland, with a hamburger-shaped bed and a plane named after her. A daddyâs girl, even after Elvisâs divorce from her mother, Priscilla, she would ride around the grounds in her own golf cart and threaten to get staff sacked.
Elvis looms large in these passages: taking his daughter on a rollercoaster with a gun in a holster; shooting snakes in the grounds. He was a long-term prescription drug addict and Lisa Marie would sometimes find him passed out on the floor. She watched Elvis carried out of Graceland the day he died: âI saw his head, I saw his body, I saw his pyjamas, and I saw his socks at the bottom of the gurney.â She was nine years old.
What would that do to a child? In subsequent years, she responded with the standard teenage cocktail of cynicism and rebellion: any drugs, bar heroin (âanything I could swallow, snort, eat, sniffâ); terrible boyfriends, one of whom orchestrated a paparazzi set-up. She had howling insecurities as the daughter of the âkingâ. When Presley eventually made music, she resisted pressure to sound like her father.
Nor did she feel close to her mother. Elvis met Priscilla when she was 14 (âit was a different timeâ, writes Lisa Marie, brusquely noting they didnât have sex until her mother was 18). Priscilla springs from these pages like some southern belle ice queen. After Elvisâs death: âIt was a one-two punch: heâs dead and Iâm stuck with her.â When they both became Scientologists, Lisa Marie felt Priscilla was âdumpingâ her there. Later there was a truce, but you donât sense a real reconciliation: âPeople think Iâm a bitch because unfortunately I have my momâs chilly thing.â
Her healthiest relationship was with Riley and Benâs father (Danny Keough), and they remained lifelong friends. While the Cage union is dealt with relatively swiftly and politely, the mid-90s marriage to Jackson gets the full candid treatment. She brushes aside the child molestation accusations (âI never saw a goddamn thing like that. I personally wouldâve killed him if I hadâ). He told her he was a virgin (âHe said Madonna had tried to hook up with him once, too, but nothing happenedâ) and was interested in her sexually (âHe said: âIâm not waiting!ââ). Later, Presley would start to doubt Jackson, who also had drug problems and his own anaesthetist. She also suspected he would dump her if she had his much-wanted children: âHe was very controlling and calculating.â
There is lots more going on too, as she succumbs to opioids, drifting in and out of rehab. But itâs the passages about her sonâs body that make you wonder if youâre hallucinating (âI think it would scare the living fucking piss out of anybody else to have their son there like that. But not meâ) â especially when she shows a tattooist the tattoo she wants by displaying it on Benâs dead hand.
Reading this, an uneasy thought occurs. Presley may have been happy to do the tapes, but would she have wanted it all published? Weâll never know. Certainly, itâs clear that Presley was nothing if not radically honest. Itâs also striking how Keough seems to almost plead with the reader to understand and love her mother as much as she does. Ultimately, this is a book built on grief: Lisa Marie Presleyâs for her father and son, but also a daughterâs for her mother.